This guy probably thought so because it's encountered like a legendary, there was only one, it changes forme which is rare in a non legendary those days, and its sinnoh dex number was just before the lake trio so it was grouped together with legendary pokemon for the longest for a while because of multiple coincidences, and because it wasn't a normal encounter until XY many others believed that until that day. True trainers like Colress had one in BW but those games were littered with trainers that used legendaries.
Why did you mention that Phione, Manaphy, and Shaymin are mythicals but not Mew, Celebi, Deoxys, Jirachi, Darkrai or Arceus?
Rotom isn't a mythical pokemon nor is it a legendary pokemon.
You also missed the gen 5 and 6 legendaries?