According to Wikipedia it's only 17% of Africans that speak Arabic. There simply is no other big native language, which makes Arabic the most spoken one. Of course speaking Arabic is not the same as being a Muslim - below the Sahara there are a lot of non-Arab Muslims, I guess.
The question about ethnic groups in Rwanda needs to be revised. The designations "hutu" and "tutsi" are no longer in use. They were invented by the Belgian colonizers. There was nothing ethnic about it (they speak the same language, have the same religion etc), it was a socio-economic division. After the genocide the use of these names has ceased.
ethnicity is only slightly more real than race as a concept, because an ethnicity can technically be any grouping of people that those people self-identify with. And they certainly did that, or else there would have been no genocide.
Hutus and tutsis have been around long before Europeans came to Africa. The Belgians, however, started classifying each tribe based mainly on perceived (and generally stereotypes) physical differences which also favoured Tutsis over Hutus and led to their resentment of the other, and as such played a big part in laying the groundwork for the eventual Rwandan genocide. The only reason that they "aren't real ethnic groups" is that scientific evidence is extremely inconclusive that the two are truly a separate people, especially after centuries of intermarriage. And I'm willing to bet Rwanda is more than willing to play up the "oh, we're all just one tribe after all" angle after that happened too.
The points about shared language, religion, and so on, are correct. I think Hutu and Tutsi designated differences between predominantly farming and predominantly cattle-raising people. The distinction also had hierarchical aspects and worked in some ways like castes. There seems to have been some fluidity between those identities, in ways that are uncommon with most understandings of ethnicity. One could become Tutsi, for example, through marriage, or through a change in occupational status. When the Belgians came, they decided to further privilege Tutsi people in a variety of ways, both in Rwanda and in Burundi. This included rigidifying the classifications and requiring passes stating one's ethnicity. Much resentment resulted, helping to explain (rather than justify) later history. (I'm relying heavily on Rene Lemarchand and Mahmood Mamdani for this.)
The British did the same thing, hardening divisions between distinct ethnic groups and assigning particular spheres to particular groups, with similar results, in Kenya.
It's interesting how the history of Sierra Leone roughly parallels that of Liberia, only with African-Britons and African-Canadians instead of African-Americans.
I didn't know this before, Interesting! This lead me to look on wikipedia and it seems like in both Sierra Leone and Liberia only a small amount of the population is made up of Afro-Westerner settlers, which you wouldn't assume to be true given Liberias reputation as a colony for African-Americans.
Well, Liberia was also founded almost 200 years ago, so it’s had many years for the demographics to shift. Also I’d imagine the birth rates for the western settlers are probably quite a bit lower than the native population.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/S%C3%A3o_Tom%C3%A9_and_Pr%C3%ADncipe