hi! it looks like based on these clues and most of the answers, this is coming from a first-person POV. I have 2 comments. My step-sister's niece's mother would be another step-sister or me. I don't think we can really say "wife", as there is no indication of there being that type of relationship. I can be single and still be my step-sister's niece's mother.
secondly, my cousin's daughter's grandmother would be my cousin's mother. My cousin's mother is my aunt, not my mother.
secondly, my cousin's daughter's grandmother would be my cousin's mother. My cousin's mother is my aunt, not my mother.
also, I think some more time would be helpful!